Friday, April 24, 2009
Friday, April 17, 2009
Raising Kids or Statesmen or Doctors or What?
The term “kids” gained much popularity in the 1960’s and 70’s. Many Christians resisted this cultural shift from calling youngsters “children” to calling them “kids”. When one church announced it was starting a “Kids Club”, there were protests that the children were not “Kids”! Some people were keen to point out that animals had ‘kids’ while humans had ‘children’. The very term was seen as dehumanizing.
Now ‘kids’ is ubiquitous and seems perfectly innocuous inside or outside the church. So, are we raising “kids” or “children”? Are you raising a statesman, a doctor or what? The question is not a trivial one because you will most likely succeed in leading your children toward what you want them to be.
I spoke at a Christian Business Men’s meeting in KL, Malaysia a few years ago, on the subject of “Manhood”. A highly educated Indian Doctor spoke to me afterward and lamented that he had actively raised his children with the wrong vision in mind. He had wanted each of them to be successful, well educated and professional. He sent them overseas for their studies and was thrilled with their personal and business success. Several of his children were leaders in their field. One was a Harley Street Specialist in London. Despite that enormous achievement, he now lamented that none of his children maintained their Christian faith. He was busy raising well-educated citizens, but failed to raise “Godly” people.
I ask you again. What are you raising? If you are more concerned about academics or business success you may achieve your objective but lament it in the end. If you are determined to raise “free-thinkers”, self-determined people, or those who know what they want and have the confidence to go and get it, you may succeed in your objective, but lament it later.
We need Godly Statesmen. We need more Christian business leaders. We need more professionals who will perform their functions with compassion and the fear of God. But if you are more concerned about the financial and personal issues, over the spiritual ones, you may simply raise statesmen, businessmen and professionals who go along with the worldly flow.
The more clearly you perceive your objective as a parent, the more delighted you will be with the outcome in the end. So don’t be too hasty to assume that what you are doing and where you are going is fine as it is. It is appropriate that you take time to think through your parenting objectives.
To help you give some deeper thought to the issues involved in good parenting, there is a Parenting Evaluation questionnaire which can be sent via email.
There are three broad levels of thought about Parenting, which will influence the way one proceeds with his or her parental role. There are the Natural Horizons, which are the worldly values and natural thoughts that many people follow. There are also the Spiritual Horizons, which are the Biblical and godly values, which God has revealed to us. Then there are the Faith Horizons, which are the possibilities available to those who will engage faith into the process of their parenting.
Written by Chris Field - April 16, 2009
Now ‘kids’ is ubiquitous and seems perfectly innocuous inside or outside the church. So, are we raising “kids” or “children”? Are you raising a statesman, a doctor or what? The question is not a trivial one because you will most likely succeed in leading your children toward what you want them to be.
I spoke at a Christian Business Men’s meeting in KL, Malaysia a few years ago, on the subject of “Manhood”. A highly educated Indian Doctor spoke to me afterward and lamented that he had actively raised his children with the wrong vision in mind. He had wanted each of them to be successful, well educated and professional. He sent them overseas for their studies and was thrilled with their personal and business success. Several of his children were leaders in their field. One was a Harley Street Specialist in London. Despite that enormous achievement, he now lamented that none of his children maintained their Christian faith. He was busy raising well-educated citizens, but failed to raise “Godly” people.
I ask you again. What are you raising? If you are more concerned about academics or business success you may achieve your objective but lament it in the end. If you are determined to raise “free-thinkers”, self-determined people, or those who know what they want and have the confidence to go and get it, you may succeed in your objective, but lament it later.
We need Godly Statesmen. We need more Christian business leaders. We need more professionals who will perform their functions with compassion and the fear of God. But if you are more concerned about the financial and personal issues, over the spiritual ones, you may simply raise statesmen, businessmen and professionals who go along with the worldly flow.
The more clearly you perceive your objective as a parent, the more delighted you will be with the outcome in the end. So don’t be too hasty to assume that what you are doing and where you are going is fine as it is. It is appropriate that you take time to think through your parenting objectives.
To help you give some deeper thought to the issues involved in good parenting, there is a Parenting Evaluation questionnaire which can be sent via email.
There are three broad levels of thought about Parenting, which will influence the way one proceeds with his or her parental role. There are the Natural Horizons, which are the worldly values and natural thoughts that many people follow. There are also the Spiritual Horizons, which are the Biblical and godly values, which God has revealed to us. Then there are the Faith Horizons, which are the possibilities available to those who will engage faith into the process of their parenting.
Written by Chris Field - April 16, 2009
If you are interested in more information or articles, please contact Rebecca at rsmcdowell@hotmail.com.
Thursday, April 16, 2009
GO GREEN!
April 25, 2009 in Stranahan Park
Green ExpoSaturday, April 25, 2009 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. Stranahan Park
How does a city help its community Go Green? With a FREE outdoor get-together that celebrates Earth Day and Water Conservation Month and features educational materials, interactive displays and refreshments for the whole family!
Join the fun as you learn how easy it is to Go Green at the Utility Advisory Committee's Green Expo. The 2009 Green Expo will focus on water and energy conservation. Homeowners and businesses will learn how to reduce their electric and water consumption through innovative products and practices.
This amazing celebration will feature cutting-edge products, giveaways and family fun in the heart of downtown Fort Lauderdale. Last year’s event hosted 45 exhibitors and was attended by residents from all over South Florida.
Green ExpoSaturday, April 25, 2009 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. Stranahan Park
How does a city help its community Go Green? With a FREE outdoor get-together that celebrates Earth Day and Water Conservation Month and features educational materials, interactive displays and refreshments for the whole family!
Join the fun as you learn how easy it is to Go Green at the Utility Advisory Committee's Green Expo. The 2009 Green Expo will focus on water and energy conservation. Homeowners and businesses will learn how to reduce their electric and water consumption through innovative products and practices.
This amazing celebration will feature cutting-edge products, giveaways and family fun in the heart of downtown Fort Lauderdale. Last year’s event hosted 45 exhibitors and was attended by residents from all over South Florida.
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